Antoni Bolinches

Founder and Director of the Antoni Bolinches Psychological Institute

Bachelor of Philosophy and Educational Sciences

Clinical Psychologist and Couple Therapist

Creator of Vital Therapy

Antoni Bolinches

Founder and Director of the Antoni Bolinches Psychological Institute

Bachelor of Philosophy and Educational Sciences

Clinical Psychologist and Couple Therapist

Creator of Vital Therapy

Biography

I was born in Barcelona in 1947. When I was thirty years old, I graduated in Philosophy and Educational Sciences after obtaining the degree Bachelor of Psychology with a thesis on the function of transference. I completed my training with a Master’s Degree in Human Sexuality and a Diploma in Clinical Sexology. Since then, I have served more than three thousand clients as a therapist and I have taught hundreds of classes, conferences and workshops.

In these forty years of activity I created a therapeutic method and published the following books.

Published Books

Well-known Decalogues

  1. To overcome is not to become different but to become better.
  2. We can’t be the best at everything, but we can be the best at everything.
  3. When you do what you must, you become who you want.
  4. First we believe we can and then we can because we believe.
  5. The paths to improvement are action and reflection.
  6. Assuming the risk of failure helps to take the next step.
  7. Error makes us fall but learning lifts us up.
  8. After the effort, comes the reinforcement.
  9. Where the ladder of failure ends is the door to success.
  10. The sum of many small things always gives a great result.
  1. We are children of our past but, at the same time, parents of our future
  2. Let’s try to improve the calligraphy if we want to like our biography
  3. Who does not live for something, must live for someone
  4. In the same way that there is no one who is good for everything, there is also no one who is good for nothing
  5. Develop your personal skills and you will have more job opportunities
  6. You can be happy without being successful and you can be successful without being happy
  7. That bad luck doesn’t touch us is already having good luck
  8. From weakness it is yielded and from strength it is granted
  9. You can suffer without maturing, but you can’t mature without suffering.
  10. Man is not unhappy because he is bad, but he is bad because he is unhappy.
  1. Be honest with good sense.
  2. Think that what happens between two is never the responsibility of just one.
  3. He thinks that the selfishness of the other can only be detected from his own selfishness.
  4. Do not try to make your partner understand you, but to understand your partner.
  5. Don’t confuse a forever partner with always being with the partner.
  6. Don’t confuse stability with routine.
  7. Remember that the pair works better with reinforcements than with efforts.
  8. Remember that the couple cannot function only with sex but neither can it function without sex.
  9. Try to keep in mind that living together implies giving.
  10. Remember that the couple that lasts is the one that matures.

Most Relevant Aphorisms

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