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This book shows us, with astonishing clarity and adequate progression, how to better relate to ourselves and improve during the process. In this new book by the prestigious psychologist and humanist thinker Antoni Bolinches, the three great qualities that characterize the author shine in all their splendor: his ability to transmit his knowledge in a practical way, his synthesizing capacity and a clear and pleasant literary style that, in this case, is enhanced by the interesting aphorisms of his own and others that he uses as the basis of his accredited theories on self-improvement.
It is, therefore, an optionally didactic essay in which the author manages to communicate with great effectiveness the way to turn experiences into experiences and experience into a degree of personal maturity that brings us closer to wisdom.

 "When you develop your four powers, you get what you want to match what you can"





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Annotated Bibliographic Chronology 


ElCambioPsicologico 500x765El cambio psicológico (1998) - The psychological change

I wrote my first book for three reasons. The first one, because I needed to express my own ideas about self-help. The second reason, because I had plenty of time and I lacked money. And the third, because I came to the conclusion that if the work was mine I could recommend it with greater conviction.


Published in Spanish and Catalan

Re-edited. Next revised and updated edition in October 2019.


LaFelicidadPersonal 500x765La felicidad personal (1995) - The personal happiness (1995)

Evaluating the book retrospectively I think that, of all my works, it is the one that says more things in fewer pages. Its greatest virtue is that it defends a model of happiness based on self-analysis and personal growth that is easily understandable and applicable. Perhaps that is why it has had so much acceptance among supporters of self-help.


Since its publication, it has continued to be republished uninterruptedly.

Published in Spanish, Catalan and Portuguese. 


ElArteDeEnamorar 500x765El arte de enamorar (1998) - The art of falling in love 

When I was young I told my girlfriends from then that one day I would write a book so that men would learn to fall in love. That immature illusion of my youth was transformed, thirty years later, into my most translated book. I suppose it was because defending that the art of falling in love is the art of improving is an idea valid for all cultures.


Published in Spanish, Catalan, Portuguese, Japanese and Korean. 

Re-edited. Updated edition published in November 2018 under the title "The new art of falling in love".


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Sexo sabio (2001) - Wise Sex 

Wise sex meant a qualitative leap in my professional career. Until then I was a psychologist who wrote self-help books. But since Wise Sex became a reference book on the sexuality of the stable couple, of which radio and television versions were made, my name has been strongly associated with sexological disclosure. As John Lenon said, "life is what happens to you while you insist on doing something else". 


Published in Spanish and Catalan



AmorAlSegundoIntento 500x765Amor al segundo intento (2006) - Love at the second attempt

I do not know if it is my most complete work, but it is the most extensive. Fortunately, the obtained acceptance compensates the effort. I know that its reading has used for couples to separate, others to be reconciled and some others couples to be better. That reminds me of what Petronius said: you can marry or stay single, you will both have to repent.


Published in Spanish and Catalan

Re-edited. New edition updated January 2019.


LosColoresDeLaVida 500x765Los colores de la vida (2009) -The colours of life

I have always liked aphorisms and one of my favourite hobbies has been to collect phrases and thoughts from others that I thought were especially brilliant and that inspired me to create my own puns. The result of this intellectual exercise is what allowed me to accumulate enough material to write this anthology of own aphorisms that, as it says in the back cover of the book, expresses "thoughts loaded with feelings".


Published in Spanish and Catalan

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PeterPanPuedeCrecer 500x765Peter Pan puede crecer (2010) - Peter Pan can grow 

Peter Pan is an endearing character who never existed, although his profile serves to define immature men who do not want to grow. But as my theory is that most of them do not want to because they do not know, in this book I offer them a self-help program based on Life Therapy that will help them overcome their scarcities and develop their abilities.



Published in SpanishCatalan and Portuguese 


TuYYoSomosSeis 500x765Tú y yo somos seis (2012) - You and I, are six 

It is my deepest book but the least practical. That is why it is more suitable for lovers of philosophy than for those who support self-help. However, as it helps so that people can analyse themselves and discover their own defence mechanisms, surely every reader will find several slogans that will be useful.


Published in Spanish and Catalan

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ElSecretoDeLaAutoestima 500x765El secreto de la autoestima (2015) - The secret of self-esteem

In this book I propose a new theory of security that transcends the concept of self-esteem. The basic idea I defend is that personal safety depends on four factors: self-esteem, self-image, self-concept and sexual competence. On this basis, I propose a method that is easy to understand and apply through which all people can discover the origin of their insecurities and how to overcome them.


Published in Spanish and Catalan



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El nuevo arte de enamorar (2018) - The new art of falling in 

Heraclitus said, "No man can cross the same river twice, for neither man nor water will be the same. That's what happens to me with The Art of Falling in Love. Since I published the book in 1998 it has had so many editions that it has allowed me to subject it to several revisions. The successive contributions to the original text have been so substantial that I can affirm that The New Art of Falling in Love is not only a new book but also a better book.


Updated edition of Best Seller "The art of falling in love" 1998


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Amor al segundo intento  (2019) - Love at the second attempt

In the same way that the first version published in 2006 was useful for many couples to review the quality of the relationship, the success obtained by the book has served for me to review the quality of the publication. And I must say about it, that in this new updated edition I have not changed almost anything and I have added very little. I think that everything I said then serves to continue affirming today that the couple that lasts is the one that matures and that when love leaves you you find yourself and that when you find yourself, love no longer leaves you.


Updated edition with new contributions


PeterPanPuedeCrecer 500x765The psychological change (2019)


The psychological change is inspired in the clinical principles of the Vital Therapy, the therapeutic model that believes in the year 2004. The starting point of this methodology is that each person has the ability to improve himself through an inner dialogue in which he learns to realize his problems and finds ways to discover his own solutions. 


Updated edition with new contributions




PeterPanPuedeCrecer 500x765The Superwoman Syndrome (2020)

This book would not exist without the testimonies of all the disappointed women and disoriented men who have come to my practice over the past twenty years. Thanks to the information they have given me, I have been able to typify a syndrome that affects women exclusively.

Why does personal excellence facilitate men's love success, while successful women have difficulty finding suitable men? That is the question I answer in this novel essay.


Editorial launch



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Your 4 powers (2021)


Precisely because I believe that "Psychological Change" is possible and I have created the theory of personal security that I present in "The Secret of Self-Esteem", I have become convinced that we all possess psychological potentials that, if properly developed, can become personal powers that allow us to be the best version of ourselves. Therefore, when we become what we can be, we achieve what we want.


"Change your life with intelligence, will, kindness and positive attitude." 

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